I would also recommend City Cellars in Wallingford. They are next to Bottleworks which is a great place to find and taste obscure local beer & cider (Stephan's Aldergrove, Finn River, etc).
As for ESJ, the '08 Bone Jolly & Porphyry Gamay, '04 Tablas Creek Roussanne, '07 Old Black Magic, and...