The key question is - what are the tastes of the other people at the table? Do they care about wine? How do their palates fall dry vs. sweet, tannic vs. not, big vs. restrained, etc. Eclectic? If you don't know, it's hard to say what to order until you get there and find out their tastes.
That said, from my experience, sticking to moderately priced wines on the list:
--Monsanto Riservas are usually a good thing in a hearty, slightly rustic way, although 2009 is a little young.
--I've been happy with Tinto Pesqueras in the past, but haven't had any for a few years.
--Artezin Zins are very well-balanced, claret style Zins, no fruit bombs they, probably a good choice in a carnivorous ambience.
--the Domaine Carneros Pinots are pretty good.
--Cathy Corison's Corazon Gewurz has been tasty in past vintages.
--the recent releases of Ste. Michelle/Loosen's Eroica Riesling have been delicious.
--I like most of the Veramonte wines I've had.