My friend, Pierre-Alain, has died

Cole Kendall

Cole Kendall
Ten years ago I was going to Paris and I had seen the notes presented by pab about dinners at the TGJP. I had spoken good French in the 1970s (summer with a family kind of thing) and thought it would be fun to have dinner with a Parisian, so I wrote pab to see if he was available for a dinner. A few days later came the invitation to the TGJP where we would drink Jamet and Allemand. Since it was my first dinner I was to come "mains vides" but I found a bottle of Tablas Creek that I thought might be interesting to them.

There a write-up of the dinner here https://web.archive.org/web/20080324121342/http://www.tgjp.com/reunion02042006-jamet-allemand.html
but the pictures do not come up (when pab redid the web site he apparently did not redo all the old dinners). While I was only able to follow a small percentage of what went on, I had as much fun at dinner as I had ever had. Great wine, great food (jarret de veau) and more importantly I was welcomed, despite linguistic deficiencies, ignorance about wine (who knew Richard Leroy?) and different preferences (I never loved Chateauneuf nearly as much as he did), as a friend.

My travels to Paris were sporadic for a while but settled into quarterly visits where we (pab, Marie-Sabine and I) would also dine at his favorite Japanese restaurants or just walk around Paris. By some political intrigue that I never fully understood I became Le Bon Tyran when someone was unable to bring riesling to a dinner and my position was confirmed when I was able to score some truffles through a friend of Luca/Zul.

Pab and I talked about almost everything from literature (I never understood his passion for James Ellroy, but he did enjoy my recommendation of Philipp Meyer's The Son) to politics (he was a devoted man of the center left, greatly distressed by Sarkozy and mocking some TGJP members' support of Melenchon). He greatly enjoyed being provocative, posing questions to me about whatever was going wrong in America (subprime mortgages, police brutality or the scandal of the day), but always in good humor and never making it personal. On the wine boards he got into arguments that he thought were amusing but might have not seemed so funny to others.

He loved jazz (and stereo stuff) and always had jazz CDs playing during dinner. He loved the French language and would patiently explain to me the difference between "sans-dents" and "gueux". He loved Japan and he and Marie-Sabine (who studied the language) traveled there regularly. He loved Marie-Sabine who did most of the cooking (except for his risotto and a few simpler dishes) and took the photos.

Pierre-Alain was tremendously kind to me and the various friends I brought to the TGJP as well as those from these parts who met him independently of me. During my last visit pab was clearly not well but he assured me that everything was under control and that he would expect me in February. He went into the hospital a few days later and died today. He never had time to write up the notes from the last dinner but I still recall his words about the 94 Chave I had brought (that did not show particularly well that night), that it was not a great vintage but at least it represented honest work.

He retreated from the dinner a bit early as he was not well so I never really had a chance to say goodbye and thank him for everything. Pierre-Alain, merci pour tout.
 
I will second Cole' s remembrance of Pierre- Alain. Gail and I only attended a handful of TGJPs, but our reception was unfailingly kind, generous, and, as the French say, chaleureuse. I learned of his death from Laurent Charvin--they were close friends--with great sadness. I shared his love of CdP and envied his joie de vivre.
 
I'm so sorry to hear this news. I always enjoyed pab's TGJP posts and, though I didn't always agree with his opinions, I felt that they sparked worthwhile discussions here. He will be missed.

Mark Lipton
 
Sorry for your loss, Cole. I honestly never read his posts on his site as my French isn't particularly good, but it sounds like he died too young and that's sad.
 
Cole, I gasped when I read the title of this thread and then smiled as I read your lovely tribute. Those dinners always sounded like such lovely evenings, despite the propensity for Rhone wine. I am so sorry for your loss, which feels a bit like ours as well.
 
Indeed, that was a wonderful tribute.

I feel some regret in never having added a word of thanks on his blog for all of the informative and entertaining discussion and photos.

Repose en paix, Pierre-Alain.
 
Having no understanding of French, can't say I read in detail the posts of the dinners, but through the pictures the humor and fun came through. I would have liked to have been to one of them if I ever visited Paris. A sad end to an insane year. Au revoir, Capitaine.
 
Following Cole's themes, I first attended the TGJP dinners in 2006 and was always impressed by Pierre-Alain's beguiling combination of generosity and cleverness. I was never quite sure which character trait was stronger, but of course it did not matter.

In the beginning I was somewhat confused because most folks did not pay that much attention to me, and they were not overly concerned about getting to know me. But, they did enjoy sharing wine, food, and most importantly the rapid-fire ripostes.

I never attended as often as Cole and would never have considered myself a true 'friend' to Pierre-Alain, but I did get to know him and his crew better over the years, and I very much appreciated his spirit. I saw him twice this summer, and the second meal was an impromptu affair organized on my behalf, as always to show me the glories of certain wines (e.g. Jamet) that he had acquired for such little money. Who knew it would be the last time.

À la prochaine.
 
Condolences Cole and to all PAB's friends and family.

Cole, thanks for letting us know and the kind tribute.
 
Sad news indeed; I never met him in person, but greatly enjoyed the postings and quips over the years. Sincere condolences to all friends, the TGJP and PAB families, he will be missed more widely than you know.
 
Always fascinating to realize how drasticaly different some people behave online and in the real life.
On french wine boards PAB had built over the years, with a lot of determination and application, an image of "Tullius Detritus", for those who are familiar with Asterix world.
And like many of these polarizing internet personalities, people who met him for real, discribe a sensible, clever and passionate man, that, I have to admit to my shame, I have never been able to imagine.
Thanks for this, Cole.

RIP, Mr PAB.
 
He was opinionated, as he was on the boreds. He was also knowledgeable, articulate and amused, as Cole said, by la zizanie caused by a minority view.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about this Cole. PAB sounded like a joy to be around and an amazing person. He will definitely be missed.
 
I appreciate the kind comments from all and will pass them on to Marie-Sabine when I see her in a few weeks. Pierre-Alain was also in business and here is a brief obit that mentions another aspect of his life:
Newspaper obit
 
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