Jeff Grossman
Jeff Grossman
This question is always raised about going-away parties for people at work, too.originally posted by Oswaldo Costa:
originally posted by Jonathan Loesberg:
originally posted by Oswaldo Costa:
Here, here.
Hear, hear. I wish you had misused "begs the question," though, so I could get on that hobbyhorse one last time for Chris.
Now that you mention it, losses such as this beg the question of why do we wait for people to pass before we tell them how much they mean to us, how much they have enriched our lives. And BJ's response begs the answer that when a community is diminished in this manner, we have to express how much the community means to us, how much it has enriched our lives, before it, too, whittles away through death and indifference.
Perhaps we prefer to think that the option of losing someone does not really exist -- even though it surely does -- until it happens. Then, those that remain behind must assure themselves that all is not lost.