I should be in for both Friday and Saturday and just reserved a hotel room.
For Friday, I will need to figure out the mechanics of getting old Nebbiolo to the dinner without disturbing the sediment. Perhaps I should double decant before getting in the car and driving down? The drive is about four hours if traffic is good (which is not safe to assume on a Friday afternoon), and I will leave some time to check in to the hotel and make my way to the restaurant, so we could easily be talking six or more hours after double decanting. I was thinking about a 1961 G. Mascarello Barbaresco. Too risky for a six-hour double decant?
At the last Southern Jeebus, Nathan and I had a casual BBQ lunch on Saturday, accompanied by 2010 Coudert Griffe du Marquis. Since we anticipate another big dinner Saturday night, some restraint at lunch is needed, but I would suggest/request a repeat of that with, say, Touraine and/or Beaujolais (and BBQ!) on Saturday. I was thinking Clos Roche Blanche, Baudry, or something along those lines, since Nathan had separately requested a bottle of 2005 CRB Cot. But I can adjust depending on what the group would like to do.
Since I assume we will largely stay on theme Friday night at the old Nebbiolo dinner, perhaps Saturday night should be fairly open, giving people a chance to bring a great bottle or two that they are excited to share. I am likely to bring Burgundy, Northern Rhone, Clos Rougeard, old Huet, or something along those lines. We can talk specifics at some point.
I will be driving home on Sunday and, with a four-hour drive ahead, I do not plan to drink any wine that day and will likely head out shortly after breakfast.